Monday, December 31, 2012

Stephoni’s Top 12 from Matthew, Chapters 1 – 7


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#12 – Ask, Seek, Knock (7:7-8)
Asking, Seeking, Knocking = prayer.  Ask for things, for wisdom and for God’s presence. Pray for your dreams to come true. 
Asking is verbal – speak your prayers
Seeking is visual – watch for answers and watch for guidance
Knocking is physical – make some noise, be persistent, be intentional. Maybe your physical life can be a prayer

#11 – Judging Others (7:1-2) Christ’s instruction to  not judge others is a command that is really a gift of instruction because it allows us to focus our thoughts on what is beautiful instead of worrying about judging others.

#10 – Temptation vs. Test (4:1-11)

#9 – Discipleship is reciprocal. Maybe we have thought of ourselves as wanting to be disciples of Christ – he will disciple us.  Yes, that is true, but in the Great Commission (end of Matthew) and when John the Baptist baptized Christ and others, we were commanded to ‘Go and make disciples.’  That puts us in the middle – being discipled and discipling others.

#8 – Also on baptism – Christ’s baptism was unnecessary according to Jewish leaders because Jesus was already a Jew and did not need to be baptized – a sign of conversion.  By getting baptized, Jesus was demonstrating that he was converting to something different that the way that Jews understood their religion and their commitment to God.

#7 – Joseph was a dreamer.  God spoke to Joseph in dreams (Old Testament Joseph and New Testament Joseph.) Joseph was advised to stay with Mary, he was warned to leave Israel, and he was advised to return to Nazareth – all in dreams.

#6 -  The culture of Israel and Greece and Rome etc… during that time was a culture that saw wandering philosophers who spoke and taught those who would attach themselves to the leader and follow him.  Philosophers were a bit snooty/confident and wouldn’t ask people to follow them; philosophers wanted disciples to ASK to follow them.  Christ, however, asked people to follow Him.  Christ called disciples.

#5 - Unless otherwise noted in scripture, all of Christ’s events occurred on or near the Sea of Galilee.  Jesus was such a lake guy.

#4 – King Herod was insanely jealous, and he even killed his own children if he thought they would be competition to him and his reign.  He put popular people in prison before he died with the orders that upon his death they should be killed.  He knew this would grieve the people and that there would then be tears shed at the time of his death.  He wanted to make sure that people cried when he died.

#3 – The Holy Spirit was in action LONG before Pentecost. (1:20)  The Holy Spirit descended like a dove at Jesus’ baptism, and He moved the baby in Elizabeth’s womb when she met with Mary… and many other ‘appearances’ in the Old Testament.

#2 – The Annunciation occurred in a grotto – a cave.  Jesus was born in a grotto as well.

#1 – Jesus came as a baby– a ‘real’ person.  This old world can be so dark and discouraging; we see evil and violence and degradation. Babies can catch the attention of even the coldest hearts.  They offer peace and a sense of hope in our immediate surrounding and in our larger world.  God’s unique way of sending his son, Jesus into the world and into our lives makes it possible for us to quickly embrace and love Him. 

Matthew 7 & Judging Others


Matthew 7 may seem a bit random compared to the linear, straight forward nature of previous chapters.  The chapter begins with external evaluations of others, then goes on to advice about trusting/not trusting religious claims,  self-examination, behavior revealing character, acknowledging Christ with our lives and our lips and obeying Christ’s teaching.

After Googling ‘How do we judge people?’ I had 64 million hits! Most of the hits on the first two pages were about judging people based on appearances.  Several of the hits were linked to information about how to judge other based on appearances – like it was a good thing!

One particular judgment I made 25 years ago was against bad mothers who schlepped to the grocery store with a baby in tow – a baby that only had  on a diaper. What a terrible thing to do! What a disgrace.  Well, when my oldest was about 5 months old and we had just survived a horrendous night of no sleep.  I was headed to the store and I looked like homemade soup.  I was so tired.  I planned to just get a few essentials and then come home and try to take a nap.  Pushing my grocery cart I looked down into the sweet face of my baby who was now happy and ready to enjoy the world.  And yes, this baby had on a smile and a diaper – that was it! I failed my own test as a decent mom.

What do we often judge others on? 
            Appearance – sloppiness, bad smell, beauty
            How parents treat their children
            Whether or not someone is thinking rationally
            Racist or sexist talk
            Facebook posts
            Work ethic
            Organization skills
            Habits – drinking, smoking, overeating, exercising

Why do we judge?  There are many answers to this question and the psychology behind the reasons are as varied as the reasons.  People who don’t pass our judgment might very well be doing what seems right to them – maybe they think we’re crazy! 

So how do we stop judging?  If you can make a habit of judging people, then I am going to suggest that you can make a habit of NOT judging people.  It would take a decision to take yourself off of the bench and to quit judging and then to reel yourself in each time you fall of the judgment bandwagon.  As you give in to judgmental thoughts about people in your family, businesses you know of, events etc., consciously change your train of thought to something else.  This definitely takes discipline of your self.

The beauty of Christ’s instructions to stop judging others is that it frees up your mind and your thoughts to think about beautiful and happy things.  You can look around for the good and the beautiful and have the space in your thoughts to think on those things instead of deliberating over the degradation of people or places that has consumed you.

Letting go of judgment and being ‘right’ allows you to be happy instead.